MP, some good advice in the thread, so re-read it a couple of times, however there is some advice I don't full agree with.
Myself, I constantly play grind against dose weight (nearly every single shot). That means I adjust my grind and I adjust the amount of beans going in to the PF. Why? One thing you can be sure of with coffee, it gets a day older every day and that is enough for you to have to adjust something if you want to 'control' the coffee.
Specific to espresso, humidity changes by the hour (or minute) depending on what's going on in your kitchen/house will impact your shot. If you want to 'control' the coffee you have to adjust for humidity.
Now on to the key point of my post, rather than control the coffee, try to learn the coffee. To learn it you have to play the variables against each other, one at a time initially until you get a feel for what a specific adjustment does to that specific batch. Then, as you become more comfortable (and this might take months or years) you can adjust two or more variables at a time in order to move the coffee in a direction you want to, or see where IT takes YOU.
Personally, I'm more than comfortable simultaneously adjusting grind, dose weight, temp, shot time and resulting volume on a shot to shot basis.
More commonly, I will just modify dose weight and the resulting volume (killing the shot when it lets me know it should be stopped). Because that last sentence was super important, I'll say it again, in a different way - my typical default one variable move will be to only modify the amount of grind ending up in the PF. The best advice I can give you today is... break out a gram scale and start weighing your beans on a one shot basis, do it for the next month, you will learn a lot. For this exercise you will want to follow this example... put a little cup on your gram scale, tare it out to zero, put in 18gms of beans, pour those beans into an empty grinder, complete the grind, dose into PF, pull the shot. Leave the grind alone and for the next shot put 17gms into the PF. Etc. Etc. Etc. Each shot gets an individually weighed bean amount for the next month.
During the next month you will learn that eyeballing an amount of ground coffee in a PF isn't the best approach, different beans weigh and distribute differently. Throw the different grind settings into the fray and you will quickly realize that eyeballing isn't a best practice and that's all I will say on that.
Within a month you will be able to connect a few dots and develop some trends.
FWIW.
While you are reading this, you might as well enjoy the shot I pulled an hour ago, from a 10 day old blend(and yes it required dose adjustment). ;-)